LOVE : Living Our Values Everyday !

By Anupama Vaidya.     

14-Feb. Valentine's Day.

A day often steeped in controversy, I find myself pondering its true essence amidst swirling debates. Is it merely a commercialized spectacle fueled by consumerism, or does it possess a deeper significance beyond the trappings of red roses and heart-shaped chocolates? Some dismiss it as a Western import, arguing that love deserves celebration every day, rendering a designated day unnecessary.

Yet, amid these differing viewpoints, I’m captivated by the distinct atmosphere that envelops this day - a blend of sentimentality and anticipation, infused with gestures that infuse magic into our routines. Rather than dismissing it outright, I choose to see Valentine’s Day as an invitation to pause and contemplate the profound role of ‘LOVE’ in my life.

As I express my gratitude and appreciation to all of you who enrich my existence – your kindness, compassion and unwavering love that binds my family together – I’m reminded of the beauty of human connection. Love for me, transcends the superficial; it's a force that sustains us through moments of joy and sorrow, weaving its way into the fabric of our lives.



For me, LOVE embodies "Living Our Values Everyday", representing a commitment to:

🎀Learning as a Way of Life: A dedication to constantly evolving and learning within our relationships, fostering an environment of mutual growth and understanding;

🎀Obligations Fulfilment:  Embracing the responsibilities inherent in our relationships, honoring commitments, and nurturing trust through actions aligned with our promises;

🎀Value Creation:  Recognizing and cherishing the intangible treasures within our relationships, appreciating the unique qualities and contributions of each individual involved

🎀Empathy Overloaded: Cultivating an abundance of empathy, understanding, and compassion, fostering deep connections and resilience in navigating life’s challenges with grace and understanding.

In essence, LOVE is a holistic commitment to embodying our values, fostering growth, fulfilling responsibilities, cherishing the essence of connection, and embracing empathy as the cornerstone of our interactions.

So, whether one chooses to embrace Valentine's Day with open arms or approach it  with skepticism, let’s take a moment to reflect on the profound impact of “LOVE” in our lives and the world at large. It's an opportunity to celebrate the enduring power of connection and the transformative influence of genuine affection.

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